On Marriage.

Whether the World, with all its beauty and awesome features, was made by a Creator or by Magic, there is no doubt that there is order in everything.   If I plant the seed of a flower it will grow into a flower.   We have no doubt about that whatsoever, for the seed has its inbuilt code.   Scientists can then tell us of their discoveries that there is a process called photosynthesis, and that the plant will absorb carbon and give out oxygen.  The same is true of everything that grows from the soil.  And Science tells us that the plants that breathe in carbon give out oxygen, so that plant and animal life sustain each other.   This is the order in nature.

In the animal kingdom there is also order.   Nature has made them male and female and for one purpose, which is that just as the seeds of pants and trees come from trees and plants for the continuation of trees and plants, so in the animal kingdom the role of the male and the female is to beget children so that animal life can continue.    The male and female are born conscious of how the fit into nature and they look after their young and enable their survival to adults.   The male protects the female and the cubs, builds a home for them and goes off looking for food while the female mothers the young.   Again it is instinctive in the animal kingdom, they are born knowing their role is about the survival off their species.

With men and women there is the same eco-friendly pattern.    However they are born with extra gifts that are missing in the animal Kingdom.   They have the gift of reason.   They do not act just on instinct as animals do, they have the ability to communicate beyond natural instinct.    They also have a need to 'belong', and not just be used for sex.    So they form into 'family units'  for their children need much more than food.   The children need to 'belong' and this feeling is called love.    They have a bond of love in this 'family unit' the husband for the wife, and the wife for the husband, and the children with one another, and with their mother and father.    This is the family that nature intended and if broken, the female nor the male should not  just dissolve their ties with their children, as though their task was done in giving birth. Yet this is what the Sexual Revolution has done.     The children feel hurt and loneliness, and have a feeling they were just cast aside.   So we have problem children.   Yes, well meaning people can rationalise with them, point out to them the best way to live, but they cannot give them back the paternal or maternal love which they lost.   A love born in nature.     When the breaking up of marriage is seen as a cultural good, and the natural feelings of children are ignored, we are building a broken society, just like we have today.